Warning: You will probably find this whole thing silly and quite ridiculous, but if I don't vent to someone (and my husband was still asleep), then I'm going to scream. Just warning you.
I hate (ok, hate is strong word, but I really really really dislike) people who go back on their word.
Example: This last week I emailed a lady about some cloth diapers she was going to be selling at her garage sale. She told me they'd be priced at $10/each.
Ok, so I decided to check it out.
I get to her garage sale and she tells me that if I buy all of them, she'll sell them to me for $5/diaper. Not bad, but I had another lady in talks and she was willing to sell me 28 diapers for $100 - obviously the better deal. So I told S (garage sale lady) about this and she said that if her diapers didn't sell she'd call me (I gave her my numbers) and she'd honor the $3 price. Awesome, right?
So I waited and waited, secretly hoping they wouldn't sell. I even emailed her and told that'd I'd be glad to give her $4 as a way to meet in the middle (even though she said she'd honor the $3), so I thought I was being nice.
I wait and wait and wait. Finally, I email her Saturday:
I hope you're having a great Saturday. I was just curious how the sale went and if you had any cloth diapers left. Thanks!
No reply until late Sunday night. Which is fine...lol, I'm not upset about that.
I have 16 left and they are $8 each. Will be on Craigslist until sold.
Wait a second? Didn't we have an agreement? (Granted, just her word, but you get the point.) So I email her back.
Thanks for getting back to me. I guess I'm just a little confused. When we talked Friday you had said if you had any left that you'd let me know and honor the $3 price (after you had offered $5 if I bought them all and I told you about the other lady selling 28 of them to me for $100). Now, I did email you letting you know that I would pay $4/diaper for them if you had any left instead of $3 and that way we'd be compromising; after all, I'm not completely unreasonable. Are you not going to honor that price then (which obviously would be $4 now, not $3, since I offered to pay $4)? Let me know. Thanks!
I thought it was polite and got to the point. I just explained the situation (in case, you know, she talked to a billion people about diaper deals or something). I wasn't upset or anything, just wanted to know if she was going to honor the price. Shit, I don't know, maybe "she" took it the wrong way.
Please read on to find out why I said "she"...
This is the response I get this morning. Broken into two emails, I'm guessing someone hit the send button too early.
I am sorry that you misunderstood me when I said that there was no way I would sell them for $3 when I spent $21 for them. Before my garage sale they were going for $18 each on craigslist and the only reason I dropped the price was to get a drawer cleaned out. I have several people
Asking about them at the $8 price so I don't care to continue "negotiations" if you will, for you to get something for nothing. Thanks for the time but consider them sold.
Ok, I'm sorry, but this pissed me off. First off, don't lie to me. I obviously found your ad (and about 15 others) on craigslist and you've
never posted your diapers for sale for $18. In fact, if I search it now, that supposed listing still doesn't come up. Secondly, I'm not even mad about the price (I get it, you don't want to honor the price for whatever reason), but don't be an ass. "I don't care to continue "negotiations"" - um....I'm sorry, maybe you should have thought of that before you posted your stuff on craigslist. Part of that process is negotiations, if you can't handle that, then don't sell your shit on there. Ugh.
And the kicker: the husband wrote the email from his HTC phone and
signed his wife's name. How do I know this --- oh I don't know, maybe because when you email from your phone your signature is automatically added to the end of the email and it says "C**** P***** sent from my HTC on the Now Network from Sprint." Seriously dude? Grow the fuck up.
Sorry if you didn't care for my post, if you agree with the seller, or think the whole thing is stupid, I don't really care. I just wanted to vent and get this off my chest. So if you read it all, thanks. Oh, and I do feel better. =)
p.s. I know that this whole thing is not that big of deal in the scheme of things, but shit like this just pisses me off. When I give my word to someone I mean it. If my husband doesn't like it (which clearly her husband didn't), well I guess he's shit out of luck. While we are married and share a lot of things in life, I am still capable of making my own decisions..negotiations included.